If you’re sick and tired of writing messages to women on Ok Cupid and not getting a response, here is a link to my product on writing first emails that I talk about in the video: The secret to writing first emails to women It’s frustrating writing endless emails and not getting a response from women.
So with style, length and psychology in mind, here are our latest…
Online dating tips for men First Message First of all length didn’t matter all that much.
A long thoughtful message got just as many replies as a 4 or 5 sentence message that got her interest up.
Most guys screw up writing first emails, I did when I first started online dating years ago. This question has been coming up in my inbox a lot lately so I thought you’d appreciate it if I covered it here.
I used to read a woman’s profile and try to think of something to say to her. Over the last few months me and the guys I’m coaching have been experimenting with different ways to write a first message so it gets a response We’ve tried everything from being cocky to being really nice.
We’ve experimented with long emails and compared that to short messages.
We especially focused on the psychology that drives getting a woman to reply to your first message.
I’ve wasted a lot of time writing women messages on OK Cupid in particular.
The video here shows you two things to look out for before you write an email. I think it had been so long since they wrote their profile that they forgot what I was referring to.
I’ve got a couple of tips to help you decide which women you should write to, and which women you want to ignore. I would ask a question about something they were interested in. I started sending short messages like, “Hey, I really like your profile. I quoted something from one of their favorite books or movies. I tried about everything I could think of and for the longest time, nothing worked.
Click here for a complete system for writing first emails… Then I stumbled on a system of writing first emails that women replied to. I was just so fed up with it all that I was trying anything at all. That system is a system for getting women to reply to your messages on Ok Cupid, or any other online dating site for that matter. Talk to you soon—JT How do you write your first message to a woman?